Celebrating Samhain

Samhain (pronounced “Sow-win” or “Sah-win”) is a traditional Celtic festival marking the end of the harvest season and the beginning of winter, often considered a time when the veil between the worlds of the living and the dead is thinnest. It originates from ancient Gaelic cultures and is observed on October 31st to November 1st.

Samhain is closely tied to modern Halloween but has deeper spiritual and cultural roots in paganism, with traditions including honoring ancestors, lighting bonfires, and participating in rituals to protect against spirits or communicate with them.

 

Celebrating Samhain can be a meaningful way to connect with nature, honor ancestors, and recognize the cycle of death and rebirth. Here are some traditional and modern ways to celebrate:

Create an Ancestor Altar

  • Purpose: Honor deceased loved ones and ancestors.
  • How: Set up a small table or space with photos, mementos, and items that remind you of those who have passed. Light candles and say a prayer or offer thoughts of gratitude for their influence in your life.

Bonfire or Candle Ritual

  • Purpose: Symbolize light guiding spirits and providing protection.
  • How: If you can safely do so, light a bonfire outside, or if indoors, light candles. You can use this time to reflect on the past year, set intentions for the future, or release fears and things that no longer serve you.

Feasting and Leaving Offerings

  • Purpose: Share abundance and provide offerings to spirits or the dead.
  • How: Prepare a feast with seasonal foods like apples, root vegetables, bread, and meat. Leave a portion of the meal outside as an offering to spirits, or at your altar as an offering to ancestors.

Divination (Tarot, Runes, Scrying)

  • Purpose: Use the thinning of the veil to gain insights into the future.
  • How: Try using tarot cards, runes, or scrying (gazing into a reflective surface like water or a mirror) to receive messages or guidance. Samhain is considered an ideal time for such practices due to the heightened spiritual connection.

Nature Walk or Gathering

  • Purpose: Connect with the natural cycle of death and rebirth.
  • How: Take a walk in nature, especially near sunset, to observe the changing season. Collect leaves, acorns, or stones, and reflect on the transitions in your own life.

Release Ritual

  • Purpose: Let go of the past and invite new beginnings.
  • How: Write down what you want to release—fears, regrets, habits—on paper, and either burn it in a bonfire or bury it in the earth. This symbolizes cleansing and renewal.

Storytelling

  • Purpose: Keep traditions and memories alive.
  • How: Share stories about your ancestors or folklore associated with Samhain. This can be done around a fire or as part of a gathering.

Costumes and Masks

  • Purpose: Protect oneself from spirits or connect with the spirit world.
  • How: Dress up in costumes, especially those representing spirits or mythical creatures. This tradition influenced modern Halloween costumes and was originally meant to disguise oneself from wandering spirits.

Honor the Dead with a Silent Supper

  • Purpose: Reflect on the presence of ancestors in silence.
  • How: Host a meal where guests remain silent to honor the dead. Set a place for them at the table and invite their spirits to join in the feast.

Decorate with Symbols of the Season

  • Purpose: Celebrate the harvest and the turn of the season.
  • How: Decorate your space with pumpkins, gourds, apples, and autumn leaves. These symbols represent the bounty of the harvest and the shift toward winter.

Each of these practices connects to the themes of reflection, death, rebirth, and the supernatural, making Samhain a time to slow down, honor the past, and prepare for the coming year.

Staying Scam Savvy

In the modern age, the world offers immense conveniences and connections, but it also brings its share of challenges, particularly the risk of scams. Women are frequently targeted by scammers who assume they might be less tech-savvy, more trusting, or financially secure. Knowing about these common scams and recognizing their red flags can greatly enhance your safety. The scam savvy will know the game in the situations below, and avoid falling into the trap.

Romance Scams- It’s not Keanu Reeves

One of the most heart-wrenching frauds aimed at women are romance scams. Scammers create fake profiles on dating sites or social media platforms, build relationships with their targets, and eventually ask for money, often citing a personal crisis or a business opportunity.

Scammers will impersonate your favorite celebrities or content creators.  Keanu Reeves, Johnny Depp, and Saudi Princes are not giving you likes, shares, or follows.  Katt Williams is not trying to hit you up in your DM’s.  Scotty the Psychic Medium is not hitting you up to do a Tarot Reading.  He’ll only get your money if you subscribe to him, like all Tik Tok content creators.  

Be savvy Syberites, this isn’t how it happens.  

Red Flags:

  • Professions of love or deep affection unusually quickly.
  • Refusal or repeated excuses to meet in person or video chat.
  • Requests for money, often due to an emergency, like a health issue or legal problem.

Phishing Scams

Phishing scams involve sending messages that attempt to trick you into providing personal information, such as bank account numbers, passwords, or Social Security numbers. These messages might look as if they are from a legitimate company or a trusted individual.  They may come in the form of an email, a text message, or even a telephone call.  

According to According to Seton Hall 1 some common scams include:

IRS Imposter – Demands payment for some alleged tax issue.  

Verification Scams – Links from companies you do have accounts with, asking you to update your information.  These often lead to a fake web page where your personal data is collected. These can look like your bank, a utility company, or even a FedEx or UPS package delivery. Do not click the links or call the number attached.

Lottery and Sweepstakes Scams – Scammers claim you have won money or prizes for contests you have never even entered. The catch is that you have to share some of your personal information so that they can award you the prize.

Fake Discounts and Refunds – Don’t fall for emails promising too good to be true discounts, and refunds.

Phishing can be really tricky. Watch this video of a Golden Couple’s struggle that started with a text message.

1 Sandella, C. (2024, January 18). New Year, New Phishing Scams. Seton Hall University. Retrieved April 28, 2024, from https://www.shu.edu/technology/news/new-year-phishing-2024.html

Couple Duped in Phishing Scam

Tech Support Scams and Scareware

Scammers pose as tech support from well-known companies to convince you that your computer has a virus or a serious technical issue, which they can fix for a fee.

Red Flags:

  • Unsolicited phone calls or pop-ups claiming your computer is infected.
  • Requests for remote access to your computer.
  • Demands for payment by gift cards or wire transfer for tech support services

Tips to Protect Yourself

  • Verify independently. Whether it’s a romantic interest, an investment opportunity, or a distress call from a relative, take steps to verify the authenticity of the person or the situation through other means.
  • Be cautious with your information. Never share personal information online or over the phone unless you are absolutely sure about the recipient’s identity.
  • Use strong, unique passwords for different sites, and consider using two-factor authentication for added security.
  • Educate yourself about online risks. Awareness is your first line of defense against scams.

By understanding these common scams and their warning signs, women can enjoy the vast resources of the internet without falling victim to fraud. Remember, if something online sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Always trust your instincts and seek advice if unsure about any online interaction or transaction. Stay safe!